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Ground Hog Day Movie Homework
By Kevin Murray
- Saturday, January 31st, 2009
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As I watched Ground Hog Day again, I saw the transformation of Phil as stages on a path of Awareness. As we are all on this same path, what can you see about Phil’s journey? How does that relate to your process? Can you identify different stages that Phil goes through? Have you gone through these? What are the key events, experiences, thoughts and emotions that trigger his shifts to new levels?
Please watch the movie with these questions in mind. We’ll schedule a tele-conference call after our return from Teotihuacan so we can enjoy each others’ responses to this. And,
HAPPY GROUND HOG DAY!
Your Gratitude CALL
By Michele Laub
- Friday, January 30th, 2009
When we are in a state of gratitude, we are placing an order for it, thereby spurring the creation of more. Gratitude is one of the highest vibrational energies of thought and feeling. The grateful mind is constantly fixed upon the best; therefore it will recieve the best. The more gratitude we feel and express, the more of what we want will manifest.
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Teotihuacan Testimonial
By Ellen Luksch
- Thursday, December 4th, 2008
A journey to Teo is always a welcome journey into the unknown. The air there shimmers with an energy that opens my perceptions wider than they have ever been and Teo mirrors back all those places where I still deceive myself with undeniable clarity. It is a place where falsehood surfaces and evaporates in the beauty of what is true in myself. I wake up in the middle of the night gripped by Love. The stones talk. I hear my voice in a new way. I watch intentions manifest precisely. I am always broken open in a way that makes me want to stretch more. Everything I think I know dissolves into a discovery of what my heart has to offer. There is nothing that is predictable other than the generosity of our hosts and the support of our companions. In Teo, the mind returns to its proper position of complete surrender to the wordless wisdom and endless freedom of the Heart.
I invite you to join us on our next Journey into the Heart – The Pyramids of Teotihuacán, Mexico, February 5-10, 2009.
You can also join us for a free teleclass to find out what goes on in “Teo,” what a spiritual power journey is, and why it may be just the thing you are looking for.
Be an Agent for Positive CHANGE
By Meghan McChesney Gilroy
- Saturday, October 18th, 2008
“Don’t pay more than 10 cents, more than 3 times.” – don Miguel Ruiz, author of The Four Agreements
I feel my frustration rise as I listen to a loved one vent. I’ve heard this story a hundred times before. Why won’t they try something different? Why won’t they CHANGE?
Cha-ching! I catch what I’m doing to myself. I’m using their story against myself. I’m the one who is feeling frustration. Ouch! I’m the one who hasn’t changed my response.
I laugh at myself, dig deep in my pocket and drop a quarter in my CHANGE jar. My reaction just cost me a quarter. I’ve just joined the ranks of the Agents for Positive Change. Let me explain.
Last weekend, Rita and I were teaching Life Mastery Dreaming. Our group has been exploring what we contribute to our lives personally and to what’s been going on globally. We recognize that we contribute our energy, whether it’s “positive” (expansive, unconditional, accepting) or “negative” (constricting, limiting, judgmental).
Our energy comes from the thoughts we have, which in turn create the emotion felt in our body as sensation. This emotional energy is what we send out to the world. It affects not only our selves and our bodies, but those around us and the environment itself. Each of us make a big impact on the world based on what we think and feel. So as a community of individuals dedicated to personal growth and transformation, we’ve made a commitment to take responsibility for what we have been adding to the mix.
Responsibility? Some of us groaned. That word can invoke some old, heavy energy. But we’ve re-framed responsibility to mean “the ability to respond” or more accurately, “having the ability to choose your response.”
Hmmm. That kind of responsibility doesn’t sound so bad; it could even be fun. As dreamers, we love to have fun so we search for practical, innovative ways (whatever it takes!) to increase our awareness, i.e. responsibility. That’s how we came up with Be a Positive Agent for Change.
Here’s how it works. Every time we have an emotional reaction, we’ve agreed to put a quarter in our CHANGE jars. Rather than being a punishment, it’s a tangible way to see the cost of our emotional reactions on our lives and on our bodies.
Each thought has the potential to manifest in our body as emotion. The quality of the thought determines the quality of the emotion. For example, if I think, “The stock market is crazy. I’ve lost a fortune. I’ll never have enough money to stop working.” then I start feeling anxious and stressed.
When I think, “I am so grateful for all I have. I appreciate that I have enough money that I can invest some of it in the stock market. I trust that I will find ways to take care of myself.” Ahhh, I relax a bit and can feel more positive. My energy contribution remains in the plus column.
I’m aware that the story that I’m telling myself either “costs” my body in the form of stress, tension or constriction – or supports my body in feeling relaxed, open, and expanded. (Hint: This is how the law of attraction really works.) When in awareness, I can make the choice to take responsibility – to choose how I want to respond to my own thoughts, to people in my life, to the stock market, or politics, or whatever is happening in the world at large.
So back to the Dreaming weekend… I was sharing how don Miguel used to say, “Don’t pay more than 10 cents, more than 3 times.” That means don’t beat yourself up, don’t judge yourself over and over, don’t replay the same story in your head and feel the same reaction if you are paying for it emotionally.
We began joking how with the cost of inflation, 10 cents is now the equivalent of a quarter. And the idea of setting out a CHANGE jar was born. (One dreamer quipped, “That brings a new meaning to CHANGE.”) We agreed to place a quarter in our CHANGE jars each time we have an emotional reaction.
When we gather next month, we’ll pool our change – both all the coins we’ve place in our CHANGE jars, and all the awareness and responsibility we’ve gained. Then we’ll use the money to make a donation to a worthy cause. We’ll become agents for positive change. Now that’s putting our money where our mouths are.
Now back to my story of feeling frustration. How did I choose to change? Instead of pointing my finger at my loved one, I chose a different response. I chose to really feel the frustration. I took a deep breath. I let the sensation of frustration pass through my body.
As I shifted back into a place of calm centeredness, I had compassion for all of us who are working to change our ways. I had compassion for all of us who fall asleep and believe stories of lack, limitation, “there’s not enough” or “I’m not enough.”
I took responsibility for my choice – the choice to feel, instead of believing my thoughts – and I felt better. I gladly deposited my quarter. After all, that’s a small price to pay for a lot of awareness. I’m proud to be an Agent for Positive Change.
With all my love and compassion,
Agent Meghan
P.S. True Confession/Full Disclosure - Contribution to date: $1.50
So what have you been contributing?
What has been your response to your own life and to the world at large?
Won’t you join us in being an Agent for Positive Change?
How to Be An Agent for Positive Change
- Find a jar for collecting your quarters. Label it “CHANGE” jar.
- Each time you have an emotional reaction, take responsibility – invoke your “ability to choose your response.” Try choosing feeling over thinking by simply taking a deep breath and putting your attention on the sensations in your body.
- Place a quarter in your CHANGE jar as a tangible reminder of your commitment to awareness, choice, and responsibility.
- At the end of the month, donate your CHANGE to a worthy cause or non-profit organization.
- Share your insights with us by commenting on this blog. We’d love to hear from you!
Mindful Parenting: Wake Up!
By Meghan McChesney Gilroy
- Monday, June 23rd, 2008
This weekend we celebrated the Summer Solstice within our Dreaming Community. We traveled to Western Massachusetts to a beautiful retreat surrounded by trees, a river, birds, lightning bugs, lush green.
The Solstice marked a transition between the light and the dark. We gathered light, or energy, to illuminate the dark, or any belief within the program in our minds, any emotion, any sensation that is not in alignment with the Truth of Who We Are – energy, light, Life. Throughout the weekend, we talked about Awareness, the choice between love or fear, emotional purification and a transformational process to support that, and our role in the evolution of Humanity at this time.
My intent from the weekend was to take even greater responsibility in my life, to consciously choose what I am experiencing in each moment.
Monday morning, 5 am. My one year old, Bodhi, awakens ready to start the day. I am tired, praying he will go back to sleep. But no, he is now wailing. I stumble down the hall, feeling cranky. I am supposed to be able to sleep in after a Dreaming weekend. This isn’t how I want to start my day. As I lift him from his crib, I remind myself that I made a commitment to choosing love. I assume this reminder will make the crankiness go away.
We head downstairs for breakfast and I am aware that I still feel cranky and I still don’t want to feel cranky. I catch what I am doing and laugh at myself. The program in the mind is so subtle, so sly. I made the erroneous equation crankiness does not = love, which is my intent, therefore I should not be feeling this.
I shift my attention. I remind myself of the process I taught. Welcome the emotion. Breathe. Let it flow. I welcome the crankiness. I breathe. I let it flow. This is love. Allowing what I am in the moment, cranky. This is acceptance. The crankiness moves through me, flows.
I look around our home. There are piles and piles of stuff strewn about that haven’t been unpacked from the weekend (and trust me, with a one year old in tow that’s a lot of stuff). The dishes are teetering on top of one another in the sink from last night’s dinner. This morning I was supposed to unpack, clean up, prepare for the week but I decide to be gentle on myself and take a walk with Bodhi and Gorda, our dog, instead.
We run into DaDa (Jamie) at the local coffee shop. Bodhi learns that a “rose” (pronounced “wose”) is a kind of flower. We take the time to sniff one and the petals shower down onto Bodhi’s feet. We admire the boats (boats! boats!) in the fog-shrouded harbor. We push the stroller in circles until we are laughing and dizzy. We see two friends, three dogs, more flowers.
By the time we return home, I am not so tired. I am grateful that Life sent a message to awaken this morning (literally) – in the form of a crying baby. I appreciate my beautiful mind, and its good intentions for knowing how Life should be. And I am so pleased that I no longer believe what it says because, as always, Life had a much grander plan on this day, filled with light, for me.
I Change My Thoughts, I Change the Emotional Quality of My World
By Rita Rivera Fox
- Sunday, May 4th, 2008
Mastering life is the process by which we become aware of how thought and belief have the power to manifest. We can begin practicing self awareness by observing the thoughts and beliefs that we are using to create the interpretation of what the world brings us. After all, thoughts and beliefs are the raw material we use to craft our daily experience of life. While a thought is not real and it does not have substance, it is still very powerful. Choosing which thoughts we will continue to support or which thoughts we begin to challenge is the first step in crafting our lives as a masterpiece of art.
As we perceive the world, it might seem as though the world determines how we will interpret what we are experiencing. This is an erroneous belief. By taking responsibility for choosing how you perceive and interpret the world at large is a big step in changing the quality of your life. The power comes from the choice. But how can we begin to exercise this power? Learning to choose a new interpretation of events in your life is where practicing the art of choice becomes most apparent and the rewards are the greatest.
We have accepted many collective agreements about how an experience should be interpreted. All we have to do is look to the media, conversations with co-workers, family or friends, and there are ready-made interpretations of everything that is going on in our lives – with both personal and global events. Opinions are freely shared. Soon we are agreeing with how someone else is seeing an event without ever asking ourselves “Is this how I see this situation? Is there another way to interpret this? Does the way I’m looking at this circumstance contribute to creating happiness and overcoming fear in my life?”
These collectively shared interpretations often come from a very limited and fearful point of view. These days there is much uncertainty in the events of the world – war, hurricanes, rising gas prices. And that uncertainty is creating a lot of fearful stories and reactions. If we respond with fear to what is happening globally, we are not making the best choice on our own behalf. When we create fearful conclusions and stories to what we are presented with, we give this type of energy to our lives. This energy creates the emotional quality that then colors our existence. Our combined fearful responses have the power to manifest the very circumstances that frightens us. The results are that we feel helpless and powerless in a constantly changing world. This is how we lose our happiness.
The power to challenge the interpretation of what our mind says about current events, whether personal or global, comes from exercising the power of choice. First, we use our awareness to see how we are interpreting an event. If the story we choose creates anxiety or distress in the body, or steals our happiness, we can decide to withdraw our agreement and support of it. Consciously choosing our interpretation means that we begin to challenge the old existing points of view. These old points of view usually reflect our lack of faith in the divine order of life or our lack of faith in our own resilience. By making an active choice about how we want to tell our story actually changes the quality of our life experience.
- To re-interrupt simply means to ask yourself a few important questions. In other words, you question that voice of authority in your head.
- What is the story you are telling? How are you interpreting what is happening now (or what had happened before)?
- Can you believe that this is absolutely true?
- How does it make you feel?
- What if you don’t believe your interpretation? How do you feel then?
Taking a few moments to become aware of what is going on in the internal dialogue in our minds, and then questioning that dialogue to see if a new choice or interpretation is possible, results in shifting our awareness. The simple action of consistently observing the process of thinking will begin to transform the way we think. This then results in a new experience, or sensation in our bodies – potentially one of more peace, joy, and happiness.
Emotions that enhance our experience of life come from our truest, most authentic self. This is the part of us that is accessed when we rely less on thought and more on feeling. Love, or the experience of being one with what created us, results in an enhanced emotional experience of life. We are interacting with that force all the time. What brings us our greatest happiness is our allowing that love to have a clear channel to flow out of us and into the world that we are creating. This is only possible when we challenge our fearful stories and choose to not believe everything we think. While we may not have control over the events occurring in the outer world, we certainly do have the ability to choose our response to it with awareness.
The Grace in All Things
By Jamie Gilroy
- Monday, April 14th, 2008
I love the definitions of grace as offered by the Random House dictionary. There are 11 variations on the meaning each equally evocative of a feeling. All paying homage to a grand word.
My life is full of grace. It is Sunday morning which has got to be my favorite morning of the week. There is a quality that is both poignant, and nostalgic. The light this morning is beautiful. The world outside must be asleep and so seems non-existent. Inside it’s me and Bodhi making breakfast while Meg sleeps too. I love this time with my littlest son. I get a chance to slow down to his rhythm, to not rush off anywhere, to have no agenda. We eat and then go play. I watch him closely to witness all that is shifting in him so quickly – he is standing, balancing on his own, creating little games, then moving on to another interest. There is this big sheepskin on the floor of his playroom that I lie on. We are listening to music (Explosions in The Sky – The Earth is Not a Cold Dark Place*) which Bodhi will often start bobbing to then go back to playing. As I lie there watching him experiencing life he lifts a small ball in his hands and offers it to me. I find myself flashing on a memory from long ago.
It is the end of summer 1980. My good friend Val and I have just finished our “Knights Without Armor” training in Boulder Colorado at the Blue Poppy Chi Kung Association run by Bob Flaws. We had spent the summer learning how to stand in low horse for an hour without moving by the Boulder Creek. We learned all about acupuncture points and Tai Chi Ruler, and Taoism and Buddhism. We drank beer and danced wildly into the early morning hours, then went to the 24 hour diner and ate breakfast. We rarely slept. We walked the mall in bare feet Val with his Bo or staff, me with my wooden sword. We would spar for no reason at a moments notice. We lived like kings without a country to rule. We perfected our art, let our hair go wild, grew strong and meditated like statues. We lived on Chi Gung exercises, faith and Dots Diner burritos. It was a summer I’ll never forget. In early September we left to hitchhike to Portland Oregon to visit a girlfriend of mine who over the summer shacked up with another man. Like samurai on a mission we left Boulder on a blazing hot Sunday.
Our first ride drove us all the way to Cheyenne and the junction of I-25 and I-80. I remember thinking how unusually hot it was for September with the sky a perfect deep blue, not a cloud in sight. Slightly parched and a bit hungry we walked down the ramp to get onto I-80 westbound. I looked down and saw a piece of fruit in the dirt on the shoulder of the ramp. I bent down to pick it up. It was a peach. I looked at Val, then at the peach. It was cool in my hands and felt perfectly ripe and totally un-bruised. I looked around at the sage and open land surrounding us. No peach trees, no fruit stands, nothing. I looked at Val again. We both smiled. I took a bite and handed it to Val. We shared the most delicious peach I have ever tasted and to this day 28 years later have not tasted another peach so juicy and sweet. Our story at the time was that the 18 Lohan, who look after warriors with integrity, had left it there for us as a sign of their approval.
My story now is that was Grace.
I start to remember all those moments in my life that had that feeling of Grace to them. At the time I may have called them heartbreak, failure, tragedy, longing, loneliness, struggle, surrender, searching. Now I see it all as just plain Grace. Like Bodhi learning to first crawl, then stand in balance, then walk, and finally run I see the beauty and grace in the moments of learning and progression from birth to death as one magnificent tapestry woven from one strand without end.
Grace.
In so much love.
J
Your World in Balance
By Rita Rivera Fox
- Friday, March 14th, 2008
Understanding emotion – how it is formed, what purpose it serves, what lies within its hidden messages, and most importantly how it directly affects your daily life, is one of the most powerful ways to bring your world into balance. When you open to learning how emotions affect the quality of your life experience, you begin to make new choices that contribute to your happiness and ultimately to that of all humankind. Imagine a day, month, lifetime of deep balance and happiness. Wouldn’t that be the greatest gift to give yourself and your loved ones?
Emotions surprise and delight us, they annoy and agitate us. They cause turmoil and conflict as well as feelings of goodwill and peace. Your own emotional response to situations in your life can baffle you, never mind trying to decipher your acquaintances, friends, and loved ones perplexing feelings and reactions. Yet we are all emotional beings. It’s what humans do – we manufacture emotions all the time. Your brain is designed to perceive sensation and your mind is designed to interpret this information, and the body is designed to feel. How we interpret the information that we perceive is what creates the emotional responses that are felt in the body. Everything that we feel in our bodies, we end up giving out to the world around us. Our emotions create a ripple effect. When you develop your emotional self awareness, you experience the possibility of bringing a sense of balance into your journey of self-discovery.
With the proper tools of perception and awareness, you can learn how to re-interpret your thoughts and emotions, allowing for the full expression of feeling and sensation to be experienced and enter into a new state of personal freedom and well-being. This brings harmony and balance to your self that can be shared with your loved ones.
Life Mastery Programs are devoted to guiding individuals through the process of unlearning patterns of beliefs that have created emotional imbalance and discontent. Opening the potential for learning how emotions effect the quality of your life experience, can ultimately guide and assist you in making new choices that contribute to your happiness and that of all mankind
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